Does your man masturbating turn you off? Read 1st

My husband is always playing with himself. He says it’s a “guy thing” and I figured lol okay whatever. But like his hands are most often in his pants. While watching tv. While on the computer, while watching tv with me. Sometimes while we are watching church on tv. When I am upset/angry and telling him how I feel. It’s getting kinda weird! He does not masturbate to orgasm when he is doing this. He just likes playing with himself. He calls it a massage and it relaxes him. I don’t mind him masturbating really. It’s just like playing with himself this much? It’s like he’s a child who just found out touch this appendage feels good. I’d expect this if her were a kid 😄…but he’s 28 so yeah it’s a bit much. Would THIS turn you off? I get that it’s soothing for him but I wish there was another option like playing with a fidget toy.