Booty call Fail

Sooo I’ve been celibate a lil over a year. I am now ready to have sex again with this one particular man. I never shoot my shot but I did I asked him if he wanted to have a weekend getaway with me .... he was like yes where do you have in mind . So I told him my two select locations and he said he would be willing to do one but that my timing couldn’t be worse and he would like me to instead take a trip to Africa with him .... I just wanted to have a quick weekend Rendezvous 🙃... he wants to go to Africa next month. I’m like in my head this is the part where you invite me to your house for a weekend instead of us travel elsewhere so you can give me what I want but he’s being such a gentleman about it .... should I tell him hey I just want your sex or should I like maybe take things slow and visit him in Africa .? Omg I just wanted some eggplant🍆🍆🍆🍆 did not know I was going to another country to get it. 🤦🏾‍♀️