My husband won’t touch me!

I’m about to file for a divorce on my husband. We have been married almost 4 years and that man refuses to touch me. He won’t have sex with me. I’ll ask and he’ll make excuses on not too. He go months without it. I’ll try to touch him and get kinky with him and he will move me away. I’ll wear lingerie, sexy perfume, and makeup and he will still not touch me. Then he found out I was going to do boudoir pictures for him and he got mad and said I don’t want anyone else looking at your body . Then I was going to sex toys for me and he said fuck no that’s cheating. He won’t go see a doctor. He won’t go to therapy. He won’t compliment on how sexy I look. Won’t even stare at me. I’ll make him breakfast every morning just so I can earn the sex from him and he still won’t do it! It’s breaking my heart! I literally lost 50lbs because I thought I wasn’t attractive to him anymore. He’s pissed that I lost that too. He’s getting angry that more men are asking me on dates and hitting on me. He won’t even tempt to flirt with me. Won’t go on dates with me. I’m bawling while typing this. He’s 31 and I’m 24… this is what I look like now and he still won’t do anything with me…