Do you consider this cheating

Taking the time to unblock an ex on Facebook,look up their profile, search their page for a post they made in 2012 saying “I love you *name*!” And liking it. Then liking three more posts of the same kind. Just on that alone I consider it the same as calling or texting them because why else would you like it except for them to see it hope they contact you.

The second thing is saving an exes name as a guys name and talking on the phone every single night without telling your partner.

These are two things my S/O has done and his sister attacked me saying that it wasn’t cheating. That the “general population” considers cheating when someone has sex with someone else.

I’m a very honest and loyal person in a relationship. I’ve always believed that if you wouldn’t do it with your girlfriend or boyfriend or wife/husband, sitting right next to you, you shouldn’t be doing it.

I also believe there’s more than one kind of cheating than just having sex with someone else. There’s emotional cheating, starting a new relationship while still with someone else, I had made a vague ass Facebook post about cheating and his sister lost her shit saying I’m “hurting his reputation” and making him “seem like a cheater when he didn’t cheat” UM GIRL you doing that and telling him he’s perfect and a great partner and that it’s not cheating is why he does what he does. He’s never held accountable for anything. And if he doesn’t want a reputation as a cheater and liar, maybe don’t cheat and lie??

We just had our second child this March. He lays in the guest room holding our child and talking on the phone to her. Dude I just can’t 🤦‍♀️ I’m being called crazy and that I’m making a huge deal out of nothing. I take being honest and kind in a relationship seriously. And if I wasn’t losing my shit finding out he’s trying to start a new relationship while still with me. While telling me daily we’re going to buy a house and raise our kids together.