This guy I’ve been seeing is constantly busy, I mean like not just work busy I mean from the moment he opens his eyes till like 2am he’s constantly in a need to be around people or doing people favours.

I barely see him I see him, he never spends the whole weekend with me only 1 night and this one particular weekend I hadn’t spent it with him in 3 weeks, I drove 60 miles to see him and I got to his house and his friend was there, his friend was nice but it took me by surprise he didn’t tell me his friend was there or going to be there we went out for dinner and I asked is your friend staying to which he replied yes, that’s not a problem is it? For me as a female it just makes me uncomfortable cos 1- I don’t know this dude and two if we’re being intimate his friends can literally hear.

Apart from that that made me very upset, I still stayed anyways as I didn’t want to be problematic.

He constantly says he’ll phone me but never does he does apologise when I bring it up to him and always says he’ll do better but never does?

He comes round mine never spends the night only stays for 1/2 hours and then goes and meets someone at the start it was so different he wanted to speak and spend time with me, but now I feel like he’s got me the effort has changed.

I’ve asked him to pick me up before from a night out he said he was leaving he kept me waiting for an hour and a half.

Is this a loss cause or am I being dramatic in feeling this way?