So I recently reconnected with my father within the past few months. We hadn’t talked for 9+ years. No holidays, birthdays, big life events, NOTHING. He stopped calling, texting, reaching out and I decided to be the bigger person and finally reach out to him. We started talking more often and hung out one time, but there’s really been no communication since. He doesn’t really call or text me and always acts like I have to reach out to him first which seems to be the reason we didn’t talk for so long.

So my question is what do I do for Father’s Day? Is just a text or call rude? I don’t want to buy any gifts or hang out tbh because I’m already tired of feeling like I’m the only one trying.