This is an update I never thought I would be making.... Me and my husband were supposed to adopt a baby from thus girl. She was really young and the father is deceased. She ended up changing her mind last minute. It was in her right, but it still left us heart broken. Then one night me and my husband got a call and it was from her. She said she made a mistake and she should have let us adopt the baby. She said her baby is now in foster care and when they took her away she told them about us and she wanted us to adopt her baby after all. She said we can change her name if we want and she just wants her to have a good life and not know she exists. She also said she was leaving town. She didn't tell us what was going on. She just said she was sorry and stuff and hung up. We do have our daughter now. We didn't change her whole name. Just her middle name. We changed it to her bio moms first name... A few days ago I was sent an article by my sister. That poor girls body was found in a car.... It was disturbing and just devastating! I cried so much. I held my daughter and cried for that poor girl... I want to honor her memory or do something for her but I don't know what.