Advice please

Advice on getting my love life back with my husband.

Before we had our daughter I was on the nuvaring which I didn't realize until I got off it that it was causing all kinds of side effects including absolutely tanking my libido.

Now after having my daughter sex was really uncomfortable for a long time and my sex drive just has not come back at all. I can literally go months without thinking about sex unless my husband brings it up.

It's starting to affect our marriage as I shut him down literally all the time.

It's not body image issues as I bounced right back after my daughter but I just don't feel like a sexual being anymore and I don't know how to fix this.

Any and all suggestions are welcome.