Am I wrong?

Me and my Bf have been together for over 6 years, we have a daughter and live together. He says this is what he wants, he wants to build an empire with me, but I’ve been having some doubts because of some things he has done not cheating but anything but things that for me are crossing a relationship boundary. And I kinda want to give him the option to buy the ring and show me he’s for real so we can stop shacking up and fornicating and that I can have some easing of the mind. Or to either go our separate ways because he’s obviously not sure or not ready to make the complete commitment. I’m aware you shouldn’t and can’t force anyone to get married especially a man but I really just want him to make some sort of step forward, I have no problem waiting over the traditional year to actually get married. I really just need to see where this is going because I have a slight feeling I could be wasting my time hoping that it’s headed in that direction when it’s not. I feel 6 years is sufficient time to know you have the one. And Yes I’m also ready to accept the fact if he doesn’t choose to do it.