Is anyone else in a sexless marriage?

Question

I’m 33 and coming to terms with the fact that our sex life is essentially over. In 9 months we’ve had sex once.
It’s really really hard to deal with. I used to love sex. I can’t believe this is my life now.

Answer

Talk to him.

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Who’s not wanting sex, you or him ?

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My husband and I have been together for 9 years. The past couple of years the amount of sex has been declining and it has been hard thinking maybe he's just lost interest in me. In the past month I have just had to come to terms with "who gives a fuck!?" I want sex so I'm going to just drop to my knees the moment he comes walking out of the shower and give him a blowjob! And OMG! The best sex we have ever had after I just took control and stopped being so worried about what he was going to think. He's my husband and we should be able to tell eachother everything and not have to worry about what the other is thinking and just ask! My advice is to have a discussion. In the end it was just that my husband is exhausted after work and didn't have the energy to get things started. And he LOVED that I did! 
Best of luck love!

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Was it always this low? Why the change, something happen?

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I am…we have sex maybe every 2-6 months 🤷‍♀️ I’ve accepted my fate at this point.

Is anyone else in a sexless marriage?

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