Why porn?

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Why is it men always gotta watch it?don't men know it can make us sad or irritated and make us feel like we're not enough,or is it just me?I just caught mine watchn and he told lied and said he don't look or watch it.idk maybe I'm just dumb and letting it bother me?

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There aren’t a ton of men out there who don’t look at porn or pictures or something…
 I just think porn is odd… I just don’t care for it… I think it’s just socially accepted that “Men watch Porn” …. But why? Why is looking at other naked women ok? 🤷‍♀️ I don’t think they would like us looking at other naked men all the time 
… especially if their dicks are bigger…My husband comments constantly that I have vibrator…. 🙄 At least I don’t save pictures of naked women and other women’s butts on my phone… and he’s jealous of a machine… 
One time my husband mentioned I should get a boob job because I said my boobs weren’t the same after I had got done breastfeeding… I was like that was offensive… Ended with me saying, well why don’t you get a dick implant??
It’s just crazy that we accept it’s ok for men to fantasize about other women, bigger tits and bigger butts… but we can’t say anything about their dick because that’s inconsiderate… 🙄

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So don’t be with someone who watches porn 🤷🏼‍♀️ not all women get bothered by porn, and it’s definitely not just men that watch it. Here’s a novel idea-be with someone has the same boundaries as you, instead of expecting someone to change for you. Clearly your partner doesn’t see anything wrong with porn. So you need to decide if that’s a deal breaker (then move on) or if it’s not a deal breaker (then suck it up). If you decide to move on, be open from the beginning that your think porn is wrong, and find someone who feels that same way.

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I dont think porn should exist! Literally just watched a 90 minute sex trafficking documentary. A few of the girls were saying their pimp and abusers used porn videos as inspiration. It's SO SO SO harmful. In WAY more ways than getting your feelings hurt. Abusers, traffickers, abductors, they all use porn for those things. Have watched more than 20 interviews of abductors/etc saying they practiced what they say on porn on their victim. It needs to go away. Not to mention your partner is lusting after another women which yes that's how it is, same as a women watching it. Ain't nobody got eyes for only one these days 😫😫

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Not all men watch porn just like not all women dont enjoy it, i like it and my man likes it, we watch it separately and together

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I just want to put this out there that, at least for my fiancé and I, when we watch porn it isn’t because of fantasizing about the woman(or man) in the video. It’s the acts and the sounds. The people don’t matter at all.

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Me and my bf watch it together.. It don't bother me

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They don't know something if you don't tell them. It's not dumb to be uncomfortable with him watching porn, just say that .

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My husband used to watch it but doesn’t anymore. We have each other, we are fine with that.

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If it's not porn mine gose on Instagram at work n watches those tick tock girls who dress super sluty like bro there is incognito tab for a reason 😂

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Actually I enjoy watching porn and I even was told by my boyfriend that I should be in porn . Which I kinda laughed yet I have been into always thinking of becoming a porn Star yet I don't know where to start .

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