Answer: Pegging WAS the end of our relationship

So, some may have seen and responded to my post entitled “is pegging the end of my relationship.”

The answer is yes.. and no.. perhaps the answer is that it was the catalyst to set things off.

After taking some time to adjust and reflect, we had the discussion. I explained that I understand and support that he enjoys anal stimulation, but that I will not engage in it with him. It just isn’t for me. He was disappointed by this.

He further expressed that while he’d like to stay together, he would be interested in perhaps seeking this type of activity with someone else if I would allow it.. that someone possibly being a male. So, while I don’t think that enjoying anal stimulation automatically makes a man homosexual, it would seem that some of you who commented that about him were right in this one instance.

Anyways my lawyer is filing the paperwork and I’m enjoying a delicious feta and spinach wrap as I wait to board my plane and say goodbye to the last 10 years.

Thank you all for engaging! It has been helpful, both the positive and negative comments.