Menopause?

I'm 41. 3 kids. And after 30+ years of having the same kind of cycle and periods.. the last 3 months have thrown me for a loop. Im used to heavy.. and I mean heavy periods. The last 3.. medium for maybe 2-3 days.. then almost nothing. Maybe light or spotting here and there. Normally I have heavy for 5 days straight.

My last one.. I finished 10 days ago. 2-3 days ago.. it seems I've started another one? Very light but also very noticeable. My liner was full. And not red like normally either. Never.. happens.. EVER!!

Figured.. this is how it starts? Sporadic periods... few days bleeding here and there.. and eventually(whenever).. it will dwindle to nothing (which will probably feel and take forever).

Anyone had anything similar??