Would you divorce a man who hasn’t eaten you out in years?

Firstable I talked to him many times about it he only did it like once or twice in years. He finally told me the truth he said that that’s only necessary to do at the start of the relationship to impress the girl but then after that that it’s not necessary to do when you have years together already. When we have sex I orgasm and he is like you came a lot wipe yourself sometimes he says that. I loved him so much I put up with this for years I did cheat on him once with a man who made me feel what I hadn’t felt in years he ate me out so good I had even forgotten the way it felt. My husband forgave me I explained to him he looked said but said he forgave me but I told him I don’t think this will work out I love you but I can’t. The sex is much better with my husband then with this guy but the way this guy ate me out was unbelievable he said that he enjoyed doing it and that he loved the way I tasted my husband never told me that in years this man who did this I orgasmed and he keeps going he didn’t care about my orgasm getting his lips dirty. My husband just wants me to suck him off but how could I be in a mood to go down on him if he barely touches me the other day he just put it in dry and it hurt it took a while for me to even get wet. If he touches my clit it’s for a few seconds with his finger he just taps it real fast. I told him I been unhappy for 3 years of marriage. He is a great man he helps me a lot yes that’s true we have a two year old daughter and I have a son from my ex that’s 6 years old I married him young I’m 22 years old. I have used toys yes I have a collection of toys and clit suckers but not the same.