Husband advice

So when me and my now husband were dating we were very toxic for one another. We pushed through that phase and everything got better the longer we were together. Our insecurities got better, communication got better.. and so on.

Well he has never been the type, even when we were dating, to plan things out or just do small stuff for me. Like pick up flowers or text me a sweet message to let me know he’s thinking of me.

Once we got married and finally moved in together, I was already pregnant, but thought that those small things would change because he started being nicer to me after we found out about the baby. Well every time I want to do something for myself it’s a matter of money but it’s never an issue when he wants alcohol or vape pods or whatever the case is.

I’m a SAHM to my son and daughter I had before we got married so he brings in the income.

Well, he doesn’t do things for me, his version of spending time together is watching tv.. he gets irritated when I ask for his help with anything. Doesn’t buy me flowers, take me on dates, text me sweet things, or even want to hang out with me when he gets off from work.

He mainly stays on his phone. Maybe I’m over thinking things but I’ve been married and divorced already and this isn’t going like I wanted it to by now.

When I address my issues and concerns he says “you’re right I’ll work on that” but nothing has changed. I’ve always thought I loved him more but now I feel stuck with him, any advice or maybe I’m overthinking things.