A Guy Was Upfront About Sex W/ Me?

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Any Thoughts? On This? 
p.s. (i don’t not know the guy in the screenshot at all, I just looked it up on google before putting up on here for you guys opinions).
, but my situation is similar. This guy I just started talking to was straight up about what he wants to do with me. He was respectful about it. I just told him “ i’m pretty sure when the time is right we will”.

Accepted Answer

If a guy straight up tells me he wants sex, my assumption is that's the only thing he wants. But if he says, he wants sex and Is open to the commitment of being in a relationship, then that's fine too. But I need to know straight up if someone is just in it for sex

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I’m pretty sure this was made by a man that wanted sex and wanted to give the woman “hope” in order to get it. If a man immediately tells you “I want to have sex with you” without even getting to know you then he doesn’t want to do those things listed in that screenshot. He simply wants to have sex and that’s it.

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He's telling you who he is. When somebody tells you who they are, you should believe them. He wants sex, if he wanted the other stuff he would have said so. He's being upfront and honest, he's not playing games, he's not hoping you'll read between the lines. He is telling you he wants sex. If you want more than sex end it now, because he doesn't want what you want.

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I feel like this guy is lying. If he wanted to hangout and get to know the girl. He would of said I would love to get to know you. When a guy says he wants sex he wants sex nothing else!!

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If a guy I met up front told me he wants to have sex, I’d move on. Mostly because I feel like that fact is a given, so if a man feels the need to say it to me then that means he feels like it is a high priority, or maybe the only priority…

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No, he literally just wants to bang and never talk to you again

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I met a guy online who told me at our first coffee date that he wanted to exchange orgasms with me. He said he wanted to do other non-sexual things as well, but that was how he felt immediately upon being in my presence. it actually bothered me. Like yes, I want to be seen as beautiful and sexy by a man I'm attracted to, but I'd like to think they also see me as a great person they want to know too. I want to be wanted for ALL my good qualities.

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ask the guy, be upfront and have open communication, if you can’t communicate like an adult you shouldn’t be doing adult activities. ask him what he expects from the relationship and tell him what you want, ask if he’s looking for hookups or friends with benefits or a long term romantic relationship. i don’t know anything about you but it seems like you would rather wait to get to know him before having sex with him so you should tell him that.

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If a guy says he wants to have sex w me, I will assume sex is the only thing he wants.
If a guy wants sex among all the other things, then he can just say that 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t see why it’d be so difficult to communicate that?

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Sounds like he just wants sex. If he wanted more, he’d do that. If you want more from him, have an open and honest discussion with him or prepare to have your time wasted.

A Guy Was Upfront About Sex W/ Me?

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