Why don’t husbands listen?

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It’s like as women were stereotyped as nagging when we ask multiple times for something. Men need to realize their stereotypical, lazy asses can’t do something the first fcking time asked. 
Why say “ok, I will” if ya ain’t gonna do it?!!! 
Why not say “I don’t feel like it right now” “I’ll do it later” “I’ll do it in the morning” 
orrrr “can you?” 
Fuuuuuuuuudge. I’m tired of repeating myself.

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Lol I quit repeating myself and after a couple weeks of chaos for him he just started listening lol I think he realized if he said he would do it I refused to touch it so things would just sit waiting for him he didn’t like not having underwear for work so he stepped up I also would say yeah I’ll iron your work clothes and just not do it going to work as the boss in wrinkled clothes only took 2 days for him to get a clue on how annoying it is saying you will do it and you don’t

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Because their ears don’t send messages to their brain. Essentially neither their ears or brain work…

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I feel you. Been there.
What's saved my union is giving detailed instructions of exactly what I need. 
Spell. It. Out. 
Rather than saying "hey can you take the garbage out?"..
I will say "can you take the garbage out right now? I need to cook and there is no room for waste in the bin".
That should help. Hopefully.

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I just don’t repeat myself anymore. When I start doing it he’ll be like “I was about to do that.” 🙄 like “ no you weren’t lol you only got up because I started doing something I asked hours ago.”

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I always do my best to do something as soon as I’m asked. My husband always says “I want to relax for a little while first” or “I’ll do it later” and then conveniently forgets so I have to ask him a million more times. It drives me nuts. What’s so hard about just doing something when you’re asked (when you’re not busy with something else) and just getting it out of the way? I tried the whole “don’t touch it and let him deal with it” but then our trash would hatch bugs 🤢

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I know when my husband asks I do it right away, but when I ask him, the things I ask to be put away sit there for weeks!!! I hate it!

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My thoughts the last few days. We are moving and I’m like welp, I’m a broken record giving him (small) tasks while I do all the packing 🙄

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I tried this on my ex and he just quit his job, stayed at home, and lived in his filth so I left him and made a bunch of changes like moving, starting a job, etc. I’m now with the love of my life and wouldn’t ever ask for anyone else

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Y'all are with some dumb ass men. Raise your standards.

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Omg thank YOU!!!!!

Why don’t husbands listen?

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