He goes limp…?

Question

I’ve been having sex with my boyfriend of less than 2 months. It’s only been about 3 times. Anyway, he would go limp while he’s in it like how is that even possible? Then he’d pull it out (limp in the middle of sex) and I would suck it back to life 😂 and then we’d continue. But I’m kind of hurt. Literally never had this issue before with my ex. Does he not like the sex? I’m too embarrassed to ask him.
Casey: We have good communication skills, don’t start reaching now 😂 some things are still embarrassing to discuss as a new couple. I also don’t want to possibly offend him or make him insecure.

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He may have performance anxiety or maybe gets too hot? I was once with a guy and he just had some insecurities and nervousness around sex. 🤷🏾‍♀️ if its good other than you having to resurrect his dick everytime, I wouldn't worry lol hope this helps

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Blame the porn that men watch. It messes with their head…both of them!

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My boyfriend had the same issue. He was single for 2 years before me. He said it was performance anxiety. He was still really turned on me and what I was doing but just hadnt done it in so long he was nervous. Try to make it more natural and relaxing for him. Dont give him time to think too hard about it. My partner also said that he was so used to his hand it was difficult to get pleasure from anything else that wasnt his grip (except for head too) but often with his hand at the base. If you say something it will likely make him more nervous next time you guys go at it but maybe you can say "im not upset or anything but I noticed your anxious and that coukd be why it goes soft, is there anything I can do to help" and maybe mention the other possibility it could be

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This is something that happens to tons of guys and I wouldn’t be offended or hurt by it at all. Sometimes they just get too hot or whatever and in a second it’s gone. 🤷🏼‍♀️ don’t worry about it unless it’s upsetting him significantly

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Sometimes men have a really hard time getting and staying up. It could be genetic or lack of nutrition or sleep. Either way if you’re getting him back up, there’s almost a 99% chance that he likes what you’re doing. My ex stopped watching porn at one point and then he wouldn’t last more than a few minutes. Before this we would have sex for literally hours. I would just talk to him about it and when you bring it up maybe ask how you can help if you can.

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If you’re too embarrassed to ask then you shouldn’t be having sex with him. Also, it’s not about you. There are a million reasons he’s having issues during sex. Communicate.

He goes limp…?

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