Am I being Gas lit

GIRL it’s about to get messy and long

He had a “friend” that was his ex that he lied to me about. Then he stopped talking to her (supposedly) after I found out. Then home boy tells me he loves me for the first time after we have sex. And I ask him if he means it or if it was just in the moment he gets offended and says we will just start over. Which made stuff super awkward and I ended up ghosting him.

He try’s to get me back and I agree to go back out with him we have lots of sex I meet his mother for the first time and things felt normal. But my instincts kicked in so I asked him is this a situationship he said yes. Also I saw on his phone a girl named Mel with a eggplant emoji and a peach emoji. When I got mad about it he made it seem like I was over reacting and was like it’s a dare me and all my friends had with her I can call her to prove it and I can ask to take it off my phone .like bitch you have to ask to take it off but I digress

Then He switches up on me again just being very distant and I was like begging him to hang out with me because any time I asked he was like I might be busy Ilyk. I ask him if he just wanted to break up and he’s like basically saying he doesn’t like me at all anymore. Then the next day he’s texting me like he didn’t just basically break up with me. And kinda acting like I hurt him because I said I didn’t want to be with him.

I’m so confused and hurt because he made it seem like I had so many insecurities and put to much pressure on him. Then had the audacity to say he didn’t trust me after I ghosted him. Is he a narcissist or something he would always do just enough to make me feel like he cared (dates cute words, quality time) then go back to always playing video games and never talking to me. All I ever wanted was quality time and to talk like we did At first. I know I’m not wrong and I was never a really insecure person. There are so many other things but it would take to long.

Update

I returned all his stuff and deleted him. I was feeling bad thinking I was overreacting but that was most likely because he knows how to mess with my mind. I’ve been good and seeing what you all said just helped me stay strong in what I already knew. Thank you everyone I’m gonna be having a hot/selflove summer ☺️🥰