Selfish People

We’re planning a weekend family trip. My sisters family is planning on coming as well as our parents and another 2 families. A few weekends were suggested but of course one person can’t do that weekend. The one weekend that does work for everyone is the most expensive for one of the families to fly and they’re complaining about it. Now they’re throwing the blame on others because they want to go a different weekend. They even asked me if I would ask my doctor if I can travel at 36 weeks! I’ve delivered early every pregnancy. My kids were delivered early, 38&39 weeks. This is the second time they’re asked me to jeopardize mine and my baby’s health. One of them asked me if I can ask my dr to induce me so she can have her wedding 3 days before my due date!

I do love them all very much but it hurts so much that they don’t care about me as much as I’ve always cared about them. We were very close growing up Until they met their spouse and he moved her across the country. Our relationship has deteriorated. It’s also effecting relationship with other siblings and family members. I’m just so sick and tired of being mistreated every time we try to be a family. It’s as if my opinion doesn’t matter only theirs does. I’ve always kept quiet but I’m not doing that anymore. It only hurts my feelings more.

I don’t get how selfish people can be. Just need to vent. Who’s is right and who is wrong about this!!??