I genuinely didn’t grow up with so much judgement in my family/peers/family friends. Unless you’re creating an actual harmful environment (drugs, alcohol, abuse, etc) everyone I knew would offer assistance or advice if you’re struggling or asked. I feel like I see a new mom on here each day getting upset about someone else’s opinion. One crazy thing I’m seeing is people getting upset that someone is having too many children?!?! HUH?! If they’re taken care of and loved on, why does that matter? This is crazy.