Boyfriend shuts down every time I talk about birth plan


My boyfriend hasn’t been very involved with my pregnancy. He hasn’t come to one Dr appointment, when I show him the weekly videos of the growth of our baby he says things like “gross”. He can’t handle any details of what’s happening to my body.

He’s ok when we talk about fun stuff about the baby but anything that’s medically related or anything serious he completely shuts down.

I tried to bring up my birth plan and he said, I don’t want to talk about this right now “ You are pissing off”

This makes me extremely concerned and I don’t know what to do.

It makes me worried he’s going to freak out and not be able to handle it and leave.

Our relationship is otherwise great, he just really isn’t good under pressure or stress and I feel like those are big parts of being a parent.