I was wondering on how some of y’all dealt with a toxic mother in law. And when i saw toxic i mean she calls every night drunk asking when she can tell everyone about the baby because she can’t take it anymore and when she doesn’t like our answer she just cusses my husband out. (She was an alcoholic abusive drug addict mother) she calls and says she can’t wait to kiss all over the baby she doesn’t care what my husband told her (he told her she wasn’t going to) my biggest concern is her wanting to get all close in the baby’s face when it’s here I’m only 13wks but she’s causing so much worry for the future. She smokes more than a chimney and stays hacking and coughing up mucus. Everything is a piss competition with his father (they had an ugly divorce when my husband was a child) so now it’s also the fact they’ve stolen any party or gender reveal we can have because they can’t be by each other. And you can’t invite one without the other or it will be hell. His father already said if he can’t come to the hospital don’t let the crazy women in. I just need help and comfort I’m so concerned and worried for the future