Is getting a dildo disrespectful to boyfriend ?

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My boyfriend and I have wondered if this is a thing couples do? Get toys to add spice to the bedroom? Or is it disrespectful? I hear different things all the time Saying that it is because ‘why would you need toys if your partner is good enough at it?’ Or I hear ‘it’s so fun to experiment these things with your partner in the bedroom!’ 
 Idk what to think. He’s expressed that he wouldn’t mind getting one to do anal and vagina sex. And also he said he would like to watch me ride a dildo. 
 I’m open to the idea I just idk lol help

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it’s totally your own boundaries in your relationship and what you guys work out. do what you want. toys can be fun and sexy in the bedroom for sure

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I’ve had male friends express that they feel it’s disrespectful and as you said it kinda implies they aren’t doing the job right. But for me and my SO, we use them to have more fun in the bedroom.

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Not disrespectful at all, especially if he’s cool with it. You twos relationship boundaries are your business, don’t worry about what other people think

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Are you kidding? My husband buys them for me!!! 🤣

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It’s not disrespectful, many couples use toys in the bedroom to keep things Interesting. 
The only reason he would have a problem is if he’s insecure. But sex is about the two of you and he might like to use toys himself as there are plenty for men to use too.

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It's a matter that's completely unique to the relationship. There is no wrong or right answer. It's whatever you both feel and think about it. In some relationships the couple won't agree on if it's right or wrong for them and then they can work on a middle ground. Like, maybe only use it when the person is alone or use a different kind of toy like a bullet or just for clitoral simulation or specifically for anal etc. It really depends on what the couple is comfortable with and agree to BUT it has to be genuinely coming from both parties involved. One cannot agree to it if they truly don't want the experience because that will lead to resentment and harboring ill will towards the other and that's never good.

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Every relationship is different but toys are definitely a fun way to spice things up. My partner and I have occasionally used a vibrator during sex that we picked out together and have discussed the possibility of a strap on in the future. We want to keep our sex life interesting especially since we are gay and there’s only so many things we can do.

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I mean it’s completely up to you both! Some people love using toys and some don’t. 
My guy doesn’t really enjoy using toys but doesn’t mind me using my dildo every now and then for solo play.

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Not disrespectful. 
Obviously, you both need to be comfortable with the idea. 
We bring toys to the bedroom to enhance our experience. Typically, dildos are used more for foreplay. A bullet gets us to finish at the same time. It’s fun! 
Communication is key!

Is getting a dildo disrespectful to boyfriend ?

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