So I need some tips and help!! Basically I need to tell my 8 year old daughter that her dad isn't really her "real dad". Before she was a year old her biological father kicked us out. I only ever heard from him twice and that was it. Right after her first birthday I met the love of my life. He took her right in as if she was his and has treated her like his own ever since. We now have another daughter who just turned two. The bond my girls have is absolutely amazing! So now my sister is getting married and of course asked my girls to be her flower girls and me to be her maid of honor.. of course we said yes! So my daughter's biological father's sister will be attending the wedding because her boyfriend os going to be a groomsman . So I feel like I should tell her before the wedding just incase the "sperm donor's" sister decides to run her mouth (which is very likely). I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard spot. I know she really needs to know the truth anyway, but I have less than 2 months to get this off my chest. I don't want her to be mad or hurt. Ugh!! So please, any help/info/tips would be greatly appreciated! I seriously don't even know where to start.