Am I wrong?

My husband has gotten to where he tells me it's a "you problem" when I tell him I feel like he's being a little mean towards me. Like earlier we were trying to see if he could stay home from work as I'm sick and need help today. He kept talking to me like I chose to feel bad and kept saying I wasn't taking him seriously when he said work is important. I told him "I know work is important. I understand that, that's why I'm just asking. But please stop talking to me like I chose to be sick. It's a little hateful" and he said "that's not my intention so its your problem if you take it that way".

So my question... am I wrong? I know you don't have the full context but I tried to give enough to hopefully give an idea. I don't want to be the kind of wife that picks apart everything her husband says or anything.

EDIT: we have 2 young children I wanted help with today. He ended up going to work anyway.

I just don't know how to respond to him when he says "sounds like a you problem" because it's becoming nearly an everyday thing. He used to be so understanding and self aware. I don't know what happened 😞