So me and my husband haven’t been on our best this couple months we have had a lot of arguing and all that, but no cheating or anything similar. I just started working 3 weeks ago. Usually for birthdays we don’t gift expenses things specially me because I didn’t had a job last years. I usually give him clothes and he asks me what I want o have got gifts $60- nothing over that. So my husbands b day is in one week and I have to order his gift today or tomorrow. Idk what to get him. I know he wants this hat because he has mention that he’ll buy it but it’s $85 I know that’s something he really wants or I could get him some shoes since he doesn’t have many but I’ll choose them.

Option 1- hat he wants ($85)

Option 2- shoes ($50)