BBW pregnancy

pregnancy is only real to me when i experience symptoms. Being bigger its hard to tell. I tried to keep bump pics but fell off due to looking fat. When i was about 5mo with my daughter my hubbys family asked me all day during a holiday gathering and when i told them all i heard "aw you dont look pregnant at all" insinuating to me "your so big you wouldnt tell your pregnant". Some days im rounder then others but i just dont look pregnant. It makes me sad. Idk what to do at this point. Kinda just ranting but wondering if anyone else feels this way.