My ex husband and I got back together.

He got me a ring. He told me about it and that he had an idea about how to present it to me but he was excited and went ahead and told me. I told him to hold on to it until he could do that because I saw how he was excited.

Fast forward. He died. His family kept the ring, actually they kept everything except one shirt and a baby toy for my child. They didn’t accept help or anything.

This is the man I love with all my heart and soul.

It’s not even the ring I’m mad about. But the fact that they lied about the ring to me. The entire family knew until one of his aunts decided to tell me. His brother found it and told another family member to never give it to me. I don’t know what I did.

Do you cut off all ties with the entire family?

Also, his brother blocked me, and I didn’t do anything to the guy. He was the one who told me he died and all I could do was scream no over and over on the phone.

Part of me wants to just block them all for how they treated me. And try to move on with my life. Part of me wants to box up the bear and picture of my late partner because it hurts too much to look at.

Sorry I’m just really hurt. I miss him. He knew how to make me feel better. Without me even saying anything was wrong. I feel like everything is my fault. I’m tired of carrying all this baggage. I’m tired of being so exhausted. I’m tired! I just want to stop hurting 😭