Doctor not taking my husband seriously

I had convinced my husband to talk to a doctor about a lump on his left breast. He was trying to say it was nothing but decided to get it checked out when that nipple started having some type of discharge come out. We went to the ER. The doctor they gave us said he was gonna have my husband go to the women's health center across the street because that's where they do screenings for breast cancer so he Saud he was gonna let them know they were sending him over there. We waited a long time and when we got to see someone she didn't seem to take my husband very seriously. When my husband told him his worries she didn't see him care much. She had him lay down and touch his breast. She said its probably benign. He brought up the discharge and she just said "Well its probably benign". My husband is very passive and shy so he said ok. But I said we should still get him tested. She SCUFFED at me and Saud with an annoyed voice if it didn't go away in 6 months than come back. I Said 6 months is a long time. She said she knows and she's saying 6 months because she's sure its most likely benign. Just from touching? My husband was getting embarrassed and anxious so we left... I just feel like we didn't receive the best treatment.

Edit: We went to the ER because ATM he doesn't have a primary doctor and the leaking scared me discharge scared me