Do you feel unloved when your partner says no to sex?

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Not a bit. Not everyone has the same drive, and other factors come into play like stress, exhaustion, and schedules with work and school, etc. Sometimes one of us simply isn’t in the mood, and it has zero to do with our love for each other. 
I’d rather have sex when we both want to than when it’s forced and fake or feels like a chore.

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We both work a lot and our sleep patterns aren’t exactly in sync. Sometimes one of us feels neglected a bit but never unloved. We average 3x per week usually but sometimes only once a week if the timing is off or someone is sick.

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The only reason I said yes is because my man never turns it down so if he ever did, I know something would severely be wrong lol

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If it’s occasional not all the time. People work and raise kids so I get the no to sex thing.

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Yes. 
But....it's a fleeting moment. I understand inherently that it's not a rejection of me but rather a projection of the lack of value I have for myself. I talk myself off the cliff and I'm good a few minutes later. 
You have to know yourself, understand your feelings and line of thinking and then process accordingly.

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In my current relationship, no. I guess I feel decent enough in the relationship most of the time, I know it's not like that, my partner is trustworthy, and usually tells me a reason why not. Or it seems pretty clear that, the vibe just isn't there right now.

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If so, how do you cope and tell yourself they do love you.

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Not at all. No means: no, I don’t feel like having sex right now it has nothing to do with you or your how well you do in bed and it’s really not something you should make about you. (Not saying you r but it really ain’t something to make a big deal of)

Do you feel unloved when your partner says no to sex?

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