Orgasms and masturbation don’t feel that great

Like I masturbate and can get myself off very easily. But it doesn’t feel amazing. Like it feels better if I spend longer doing it but still not amazing

Even when a guy goes down on me, I don’t feel super super turned on. Like I get wet and even penetration doesn’t feel that good. I wanna enjoy sex like everyone else.

I’ve never had sex with someone I’m super attracted to. Can that make a difference??