Think my husband is cheating...

I have no proof just this feeling in my gut... Should I trust this feeling or idk... Worst part is I think it's with the girl who he "thinks of as his sister" and I let stay over on weekends sometimes in our spare room....

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Wa

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Look for proof and don't let her stay there anymore. Tell him you feel uncomfortable with their friendship and her staying there. You might as well confront him about the subject.

Je

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I would start looking for proof. A gut feeling is not enough to just accuse some one over or take action.

T

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Find out! I know I can become friggin P.I when I need to find dirt. Do some digging.

Ci

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Is there anything that gives off the impression that he might be sneaking around. Does he act weird around her or something?

K

K • Sep 12, 2021
Uhhh that’s messed up. Only girl he should be cuddling is you

fr

fran • Sep 6, 2021
To me that's very weared I wouldn't do that with someone I thought of as a brother I certainly wouldn't do it with my actual brother in fact the only people I do cuddle are my husband and my kids that is not normal

Ci

Cierra • Sep 1, 2021
Even if he hasn’t done anything with her, he will eventually. Your husband doesn’t know healthy boundaries with women. If he is okay with doing that with a woman other than you or someone in your family he will eventually be okay with doing more. My husband sometimes doesn’t set good boundaries but he definitely knows not to cuddle with another woman, it would not be good for him if he did that. Just sayin

K

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I would look for proof before accusing him but in my experience whenever someone has said they view a member of the opposite sex as a brother or sister, they always end up dating