Boyfriends sister

Alright.

Let me start of by saying I think she’s genuinely a good person and so is her husband.

On the flip side of it. She’s one of those girls who gets absolutely everything in life & then some and then is ungrateful. And I don’t like that at all, I’ve tried avoiding people like that. I come from basically nothing, worked hard. Got my college degree. Made something of myself. Well she is the only daughter, and has been spoiled her whole life. From everyone. Everyone does everything for her, always going the extra mile. And they do that, but then she is always wanting more or doesn’t even acknowledge how much they do for her.

Example: she was pregnant & went to her dad (my boyfriends dad) and told him she wanted to go on a family trip to FL before she had the baby, so he booked it in a heartbeat and we went. Her and her husband threw a fit anytime we all wanted to do something, or wanted to go to the beach or do anything Bc she didn’t wanna do it or “couldn’t.” She said she didn’t understand why we all couldn’t just stay in the hotel with her. And my boyfriend just said we wanted to do other stuff and we’d be back and would hang out in the evening or do dinner or whatever the case was. She threw a fit every day. We went mini golfing with her, and she had an attitude the whole time Bc it wasn’t something she wanted to do. Just little things like that where it was just ungrateful but wanting more. I have a daughter, I’ve been pregnant. I know how exhausting it is, and sometimes you just want to relax and sit around and do nothing. 10/10 all for it. But I don’t understand why everyone else couldn’t enjoy the trip. I bit my tongue and just enjoyed the stuff we did and just let her comments roll off at the time.

Ever since day one my boyfriends always spoiled her, if she says jump he says how high without even asking. And it’s frustrating Bc as the girlfriend I don’t get that treatment at all and I’ve been quiet Bc I’m just the girlfriend and if that’s how there relationship is, then that’s how it is. We’ve been together 2 years and it’s starting to get on my nerve more than usual. My boyfriend booked tickets for a concert and didn’t ask me to go but included her and bought tickets. I was mad. I kinda let it all out that he treats her way better than me and when it comes to his sister, I’m an after thought.

I’m fine with making small talk and having a civil conversation. I’ve tried having a more in depth relationship, tried little things like sending social media posts, and then I’ve tried making time to get to know her Bc I felt like maybe I was just judging her from the cover and tried. She had the baby shower a weekend her & everyone knew I’d be gone. Let it go Bc it’s not about me & maybe she had other stuff. I’ve tried texting and talking about her baby and tried finding similarities between us. I’ve tried asking my boyfriend how me and her could have a better relationship. I’ve talked to my boyfriend about how he treats me vs her. I’ve tried and I’m 100% open to trying more. I’d love to have a close relationship with her. And most of my problem is how my boyfriend treats her vs me. But I think it stems from me just being jealous of how easy her life is and frustrated she doesn’t realize how many people would do anything to have a life like hers.

Her husband does EVERYTHING she says. I mean everything. He’s basically cut his family off Bc she wants him all the time. She wanted a baby, they were pregnant within 2 months. She wanted a dog. He got her one. She wanted another one. Her parents got her one. She wanted concert tickets, my boyfriends bought her multiple. She wants a new house, her husband is building her one. She wants to go on vacations and everyone drops everything to make it happen. It’s just frustrating she’s always wanting more

Help!!!! I want things to be better. I just don’t know where to start.

I also wanna add I get along GREAT with every other member of his family. I love his parents, his other brother, grandparents, like everyone is awesome and I consider them like they’re my own.