what do u think?

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do u think men get bored of having sex with the same prtner everytime? like i feel like that's why married men cheat cause they want to experience new feelings with another person and i feel like us women are different we can handle having sex wifh one person only our whole life but why are men diff?

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Cheating usually isn't about sex, temptation,  etc etc. It's about something that the cheater is missing within themselves. It has nothing to do with how much sex they get from their partner, if it's good, etc. It's a void they can't fill and seek to fill it from any source available. Therapy is a good way to figure out what's missing and then either learn to live without it or build it up if it's possible. I was a chronic cheater and have been cheating free for about 5ish years. It's daily work since the void changes often and so I need to modify what I'm doing in order to fill it myself. The first void I had was parental love so I sought out older partners, as an example

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I’ve been with my husband for 10 years and we still aren’t tired of it. Does it get boring sometimes? Sure! We just have our normal sex and then every once in a while spice things up. 
We had a rough patch once where both of us got bored, so we took a break until we missed it so much that it became exciting again.

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Not all men or women are like that lol
Married 6 yrs and sex just keeps getting better for both of us- you get more vulnerable and fun n silly- I would just say don’t stress or put pressure on these things. If a man or woman cheats in the marriage they would cheat no matter what, the sex in the marriage is never really the issue.

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Actually, studies show that most women get bored first… lack of passion and romance. Which kind of makes sense since women tend to require more emotional and mental stimulation.

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I don’t think that’s accurate. Men and women both get bored and both cheat.

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Cheating usually happens when needs are no longer being fulfilled, 1 when there needs are not being met, and that goes for every level whether that is financially, emotionally, physically, sexually, number two when you were no longer feeling connected to your partner and that goes for every level as well, number three when one person is He’s being selfish for the other person is being selfless, A number 4  when you are no longer feeling supported by your partner and that goes for every level as well, they aren’t helping out at home, they aren’t helping out with the kids, they are on their phone and avoiding you, whatever it may be but you know longer feel supported by your partner and emotionally, physically, financially, etc. and usually when those things are going on, that’s usually when I meant cheats, whether it is online, or the cute girl in the office, she laughs at his jokes, she treats him like a king, there’s no drama, there’s no fighting and arguing, it’s not complicated, and the situation presented itself. Unfortunately sex is so freely given and readily available, whether it’s hook ups, friends with benefits, unfortunately there’s more married men than there are single men on dating apps, and a lot of times because women tolerate it, they don’t want to be alone, and they tolerate whatever bullshit he does just because so that they won’t be alone. Most women a lot of times, they feel obligated, whether that is financially, because they have children, because they feel they have no other option or place to go where they don’t have family or friends nearby, or whatever the reason they stay, they’ve been together for so long, guilt manipulation, etc. a lot of the time men break down women, they feel that this is what they deserve, a man who treats him like shit, who makes them have every doubt in their mind, who breaks them down emotionally, you’ll never have anything better than me so they settle for whatever crap they will have. And those red flags that you see in the beginning are often dismissed because they give men the benefit of the doubt, they say oh he doesn’t always act that way, they make excuses, they hope for the best, and often times those red flags that they dismissed in the beginning or worse later on and are usually the problem to begin with, how they realize them in the beginning, not dismiss them, they wouldn’t of wasted three years or five years or however long with the man but they were with. A lot of times a man wants that home stable life, the kids, whatever else and because things have become boring or Monday and or same routine every day, they look for some excitement, they see what they can get away with, a lot of the times the more money he makes, or the higher position of power he is in, it seems to happen more often, not that it doesn’t happen to someone who makes minimum wage, but I think it’s that the women are so used to the lifestyle that they don’t want to rock the boat, I have an entire family who owns multiple Italian restaurants in the tri-state area of New York New Jersey Pennsylvania, and they literally all of the husbands cheat on the wives, they even bring the other women with their children to be helped as well, whether it’s to get them in college or to learn English or whatever it may be, and the wives all know that they cheat all of a sudden cheat, and I think it’s that they’re so used to the lifestyle and they don’t wanna rock the boat, they have a man who is nicer to them because his needs are being met elsewhere, instead of him being an arrogant asshole at home, it’s kind of like what I don’t see doesn’t happen, so it doesn’t harm me I guess is the outlook they have. And like I said I think the more money they make and the more power they have whether they are a lawyer, they are a CEO, or whatever else, I think it goes to their head that they are invincible and can do as they please, not saying this always happens, but in my experience I have a lot of clients who deal with custody and child support issues because for instance I had one client who the husband was a truck driver a long distance across states, and he would go to Ohio a lot, and it turned out that the woman he had five children here with, and the man, had a whole other family with another woman who claimed he lives with her as well in Ohio. Unfortunately things happen. And it doesn’t matter their cultural background Italian, Latino, black, white, etc. it happens because the situation presented itself, or because they weren’t happy in the relationship and they wanted that stable home life and home cook meals, and have their fun on the side, something is lacking in the relationship and they look forward elsewhere. I have another client who is a prostitute, basically she’s married, they own a house, they have a daughter who’s in high school, and they basically live like roommates, in separate bedrooms and are waiting for her to go to college before they get a divorce, she has several boyfriends on the side, and he knows, but they are staying together for the sake of the kids, his point was to ruin her as much as he could, he put all the debt in her name, the previous house and her name, she declared bankruptcy, he ruined her credit, I think that was his goal to get even, but that’s none of my business what she allowed, she’s doing her thing and he does his thing, they make well over 100 grand between the two of them, obviously she doesn’t declare the prostitution money on her taxes, I think we’re going rate is 500 for sex right now, people just tell you everything when you talk to them and do their taxes or whatever it may be, it’s like a therapist office in my office Sundays whether it’s child support cases or whatever it may be. It happens because they weren’t happy, they want to fill the void elsewhere, whether it’s with alcohol, sex, drugs, there’s some kind of void in that person and they are looking to fill it elsewhere. And that’s the bottom line.￼￼￼￼￼￼￼￼

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Cheating never about needing to try the flesh of someone new. 
It's always about "getting over on someone", revenge for a transgression, manipulation, punishment, the thrill of the scenario (can I do this stealthily and get away with it?).... sick games played by damaged human beings.

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I don’t think men are like that, I just think people marry the wrong person. If you truly marry the person that is your soulmate, you can’t ever get tired of it.

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I think people vary, and relationships themselves get boring- sex can get boring when people feel very stable as a couple and close. 
It's not as much passion as with someone new, it's different. I think some people are fine with that, and some can't really handle it at the time.

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