Red flag? Help

So I have been talking to this guy for nearly five months now. He wants to make it official. I have told him that I want to focus on work and my self right now and not in a mindset for a relationship. He has tried to convince me that I can focus on myself and still be in a relationship. He has also told me a few times that he wants to travel overseas with me for his birthday. He sometimes joking says that he will ghost me. Is this a reg flag

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