Does anyone see where I'm coming from here?

My partner has been in training for 7 weeks now for this immigration job. I am very proud of him.

Although I have a toddler and currently 23 weeks pregnant. Yes I am struggling I have no time to myself at all or no help.

My partner went and signed up for this hotel work at work without talking to me first. Which means four 12 hour shifts in a row.

I am upset he didn't come home and discuss this with me we are meant to be a family. He knows I am struggling with things atm and to me that's selfish of him.

He never applied to do hotel work when he got this job but ffs the fact he made this decision without informing me or asking if I would cope alright etc!!!! He is acting like a single man without responsibilities.

Yes he is working and it's great!! But this will put more pressure on me and I'm not coping as it is.

This normal job would be 9-5 Monday to Friday which means he can help with mornings and evenings.

With these 12 hours it means I don't even get that help now. It's no different money and I am struggling to cope with the fact he went and signed this without seeing if it would suit our family.

Am I being stupid or should he have discussed this with me first???