Parents 🤧

Is anyone else’ parents like always negative? 😂 I swear. Okay so my husband and I recently got a new car and it’s a car we absolutely love, 2019 Chevy Traverse, a great family car! I texted my mom asking her if she needs a ride to my baby shower tomorrow and she says yeah cause she doesn’t have a car, I tell her I can pick her up cause we got a new car so she doesn’t have to worry about struggling to get into a truck. Which we had a GMC Yukon before our new car and it went to shit. Anyways, she’s asking what kind of car we got and everything which is normal 🤷‍♀️. Then of course she can’t say like oh I’m happy for y’all or anything she has to go and call us kids (I mean which is part true cause we’re 19 and 21) and not know what we’re doing and how we spend so much money (no we have a good budget and spend/save wisely). When honestly is was the best decision for us because we would buy cars from like 3rd parties and later on have issues with them and spend more money on trying to fix the car then actually enjoying it, so we saw our options and opted to buy a good car from the dealership. My moms always negative and trying to find ways to get her way and always be right, it’s so annoying. And then she has to go on and say “well I can’t even get a car” like it’s my problem that she doesn’t have good credit and no job. I just don’t understand how some parents can’t just be happy for their children, like shit be proud of me for once instead of being jealous and negative. I understand my mom isn’t in the best place in her life right now, but it’s absolutely not my problem. And I probably sound rude and stuck up, which is not what I’m intending, but my mom’s always been a mentally and emotionally abusive/manipulative person towards me and my sister always guilt tripping us to feel bad for her and when she doesn’t get her way she gets angry. Like angry to the point she “disowns” us as her daughters and blames us for stupid shit, but always ends up “apologizing” and coming back which is emotionally exhausting in itself. I’m just glad I met my husband and he taught me to be more “fuck it” when it comes fo my mom, like if she a certain way there’s nothing I can do about it and I shouldn’t beat myself up over it. Sorry y’all this was a big rant that was all over the place, I just wanted my mom to be freaking happy for me and not jealous but it is what it is. Now I’m gonna go eat cause this baby is making me HANGRY! 😵‍💫