I can’t go anywhere else so I’m stuck

Mez • +they/them+ If my name changes it’s just part of my identity crisis🙃

I started vocational school my program instructor is a little misogynistic. The first thing he said to me was when I was ordering my uniforms and it was “make sure you order your size, I know how you ladies love to show off and wear tight shirts.” Then he looks me up and down, a 16 year old and says: “you should probably size up, I know you don’t wear clothes like that often.” And gestures to my chest.

I was wearing an xxl, a size I enjoy wearing and usually do, and he still pointed out my boobs, made me feel sexualized, and acted like he knew me and my wardrobe because I have tits. (Which I can’t even bind because of their size so everyone still assumes I’m a fucking girl) I can deadlift my own weight, and carry 140 pounds, but he wouldn’t let me carry an 11 pound sack of sugar because that’s a job for the “strong boys”. Which he used to refer to the only 2 boys present that day, who struggle to carry a gallon of ranch. Whenever he refers to any hygienic rules he will say “you all have to put on hairnets. Ladies, your hair will be fine looking imperfect for just a little while, ok?” “You can’t wear nail polish or fake nails, you ladies can live with out it, dirt collects and your hands are disgusting.” And of course: the basic, “Ladies, we really care about good hygiene here.” And the class at the time was mostly men so he wasn’t generalizing