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I was talking to this guy and im a single mom of a baby 6 month old girl he said that its worse when a girl doesn't have a father figure in her life.. Your thoughts on this ?

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Has a girl whose father died when she was four, and not having a mother who was the loving emotional affectionate type, my mother was a narcissist, my mother was never around, and she was more the lemon juice on an open wound than the old honey I’m sorry type, I dealt with everything alone my entire life, my first period, sexually abused at the age of eight, rape, miscarriages, every eating disorder, self harm, basically I was looking for love in all the wrong places because I never got it at home, by the time I was 40 I realized I had daddy issues, and when I did, the first guy I dated actually resembled my father, and the partner I’m with now at 42, For the last year, is actually 16 years older than me and I’ve known him for 20 years￼￼. I was someone who needed a daddy, my mom had a boyfriend that she tolerated from the time I was a kid until I was 16, the minute he was gone I basically went buck wild, I got into everything under the sun you can possibly imagine, I was a stripper, I was a dominatrix, I basically let men use me left and right because I was looking for attention and affection from anyone who would give it to me, I was someone who needed a man’s affection and attention, like I said I never got it at home from anyone, do I think a girl needs a manly presence in her life, absolutely, but it also depends who your mother is, my mother was a businesswoman, my mother was never the emotional type, my mother rarely has ever cried, my mother is the person who wants to kick you when you’re down not lift you up and encouraging, I never got love attention or affection from her so it’s kind of understandable why I looked for it elsewhere, my mother is the last person I would ever go to for anything, because she has never been the empathetic, comforting, person ever, she’s bitter, resentful, goes from zero to psycho and 2.2 seconds, there’s no pleasing her, so it’s kind of understandable why I’m so screwed up because of her. She was the reason for my eating disorders, because she never had a nice thing to say about me, she was the reason for so many things. Do I think a girl needs a manly presence in her life, absolutely, but like I said it also depends who your mother is. ￼￼￼

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Not for me, I never cared bc my mom was better

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He can’t speak on that all he can give is an opinion

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It’s well known that statistically kids raised by single mothers have worse outcomes. You can search Google easily and find plenty.

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