I Feel Wrong About Feeling How I Feel

It’s a long story, I’m going to try to make it short, so please excuse me.

Me and my bf have been together for 2 years. The last year and half have been nothing but issues, mainly because of him and I don’t want to put the blame fully on him.. but seriously. He puts himself in ridiculous situations, me, my mom, his parents tell him it’s not a good idea and he does it anyways. And come to find out, we are usually right. I’m not the one to throw it in his face, that’s not cool. He chooses his lifestyle EVERYDAY, when he could choose something else to do. I’m suffering from it! He disappears, he doesn’t take me to do anything, when he does come around he wants to sit around and do nothing. I work from home and on my off days I don’t want to be home 24/7. There’s no quality anything, everything is an argument. I communicate this every time and we may go get food.. not even out to eat really, he calls that doing something and then we never do anything until I bring it up in another argument. He doesn’t even communicate with me everyday, I call him maybe after going all night with no communication and by that time I’m pissed and yelling. Or he will text me the next day as if nothing is wrong! We actually use to do stuff now it’s like I can’t stand him. I see everyone in a seemingly happy relationship, my mom, my sister and then it’s like I’m waiting for something to happen with this relationship and nothing is. It’s the same arguments and feelings every week. He said “you left me at my lowest” I’m sorry but he’s been at his lowest for a year and a half because HE CHOOSE TO.

AM I WRONG FOR WANTING TO LEAVE AND MOVE ON? Would I be a bad person assuming he’s “at his lowest” Is this silly?