How long after birth was sex painful for you? (Assuming it was at all)

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I’m 11 weeks postpartum and we finally had sex for the first time since our daughter’s birth. I knew it could hurt even though I had a c section, especially since I’m breastfeeding, so we used a lot of lube and went slow but even then it was very painful. How long does this normally last?

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It was about 6 months before it wasn’t painful anymore

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For me it was the first few times. We tried both times right around 6 weeks pp. Definitely take it slow at first. I’d say for me it was better by 9-10 weeks postpartum. We’re usually once a week people so it got better each week. Good luck and congrats on your baby!

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I started around 8weeks pp and it was very very painful. (Vaginal birth, 2nd degree tear) I saw a pelvic floor therapist and found out I also had pelvic floor issue. I worked with her for about 6 months and by 9 months PP I had noticed a drastic difference. Things got even better when I stopped breastfeeding at 15 months PP

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I think it was close to 6 months for me 😕 I think the main source of discomfort was the scar tissue from the stitches for my first degree labial tears

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I’m 4 months pp. We try once a week but it’s still pretty painful. It’s getting better though

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My first two babies it hurt the first three times but I was super dry and not really feeling secure desire. I sort of was but not like super floored. 
After my 3rd baby my sex drive was so high the first time we had sex I had so much moisture and it didn't hurt. It was really weird my vaginal muscles seems really relaxed. Once the moisture settled down my muscles went back to normal.

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I didn't try until 6 months pp and it wasn't painful at that time..

How long after birth was sex painful for you? (Assuming it was at all)

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