It’s his daughter too ..

My boyfriend mother is always wanting our 1 year old daughter.

I’m getting annoyed at this point because i told him that she’s not the mother and that she’s a grandparent and her having our daughter for weeks at a time is to much.

When we pick her up from her house after a weekend or a week she ask if she can stay longer and i don’t even respond i just say we have things to do because my boyfriend would just look at me.

Everytime she see our daughter she says that’s my daughter and my boyfriend laughs but i don’t see anything funny about that.

She had her for a month for the summer because we agreed to it, we went to pick her up she asked if she could stay longer i said no she has a doctor appointment, she then gets my boyfriend to ask me if she can come back after her appointment and i said no again.

My boyfriend just told me we have to take her back this weekend and i said why, he says well mama wants her for a week and i said you don’t see a issue with this and he shrugged his shoulder saying i want to spend alone time with you but that saying has gotten old.

Her daughters are back in school and she’s sickly so i told him if she gets sick, weak or doesn’t feel good meaning shes in pain or constantly throwing up and etc.. who’s going to be there to take over and he says oh she doesn’t get sick anymore..

I’m like how she just told me her cancer has progressed to stage 4 cancer and doesn’t know the outcome at this point so In 2 weeks she’s just better with no issues ?? And he says yeah i told him i think he’s lying because if she been got better why didn’t he tell me because that’s news to tell people.

I told him no and now he’s upset saying she’s still going..

They don’t even listen to me or him when we tell them our rules with her.

I found out they’ve been feeding her hot Cheetos, candy basically all kinds of junk in the morning, giving her juice instead of milk and i told them if they do give her juice brush her teeth and they don’t our daughter also has very sensitive skin so she uses eczema body wash and lotion.. when we last picked her up she had bumps all over her body.. his mother said oh those are heat bumps well come To find out they use bath and body works product on her and tried to lie about it..

My boyfriend just didn’t say anything and i just kept saying no you can’t use those things on her and his mother kept saying it wasn’t that and it’s just heat bumps… my daughter still has the bumps on her and they’re slowly clearing up when i give her oatmeal baths.

At this point idk what to do because people are saying it’s his daughter too and he has a say so