Toxic mom/advice

It’s my birthday my mom keeps bringing up people from my past for no reason, she brought up my ex bsf , and how she stole my boyfriend I’m very spiritual , and then tells me shit about my spirituality saying I’m wrong , I’m getting so mad Bc I barely tell her anything and then she starts calling me sensitive , Bc she was comparing herself to my “friends.” Which I don’t have any , bro?am I wrong for reacting this way? Then she says I let people have too much power over me and jus going on like it’s my birthday she doesn’t believe me at all she’s like ur wrong jus on everybody’s side I feel confused ? On why she does that ? Am I wrong for reacting this way? And then she makes me feel bad for her spending money on my birthday I jus turned 16