What comes to mind when your bf hasn’t seen you in 2 months?

Please read. I’ll make this short

I haven’t seen my bf since July 4th. Everytime we argue he completely ignores me.

The other day he confessed he’s been very irritated because he’s broke and can’t afford to come see me.

We are 1 hour away from eachother. I offered seeing each other half way and he can save on gas but he said no because where would we hang out? In the car? The stores? Usually when he comes to me we hang out in my parents house.

I really thought he’s just making excuses. So I suggested driving. He never liked me driving over because he says “it’s not manly to let your girl drive to you”

Bullshit I wanna see him. He also said he doesn’t feel comfortable going to his house. That is a fact. His family is toxic and they’re always fighting at home (the parents) I’ve been there once and it was bad.

I told him he doesn’t need much money to see me. Just 40 bucks to see me and if he wanted to I can pay! Still a no. Told me he’s broke.

So one day I randomly showed up to his house on his day off. Please no rude comments that I stalked him. I was feeling weird. I showed up and yes he was home. He seemed happy but we didn’t do much.

I just think 2 months is too much.