Sexless marriage

My husband just told me he doesn’t wanna have sex anymore for a couple years because he doesn’t want the aniexty of me getting pregnant again.

Alittle back story we got unexpectedly pregnant with our 7m old daughter when I was on birth control. ( later found out my brand of bc was recalled and my dr didn’t tell me) but we got passed that and we love our daughter to death.

We’ve had sex since having her quiet a few times and always pull out and I am on a new birth control my OB gave me that isn’t recalled lol...

but recently he’s gotten extremely pairond and I told him we can always use condoms as extra protection so there’s even less then a chance but he refuses to wear them.

So now he told me he rather just jerk off from here on out because he doesn’t wanna deal with anxiety and worrying that I’m pregnant every month. And he doesnt trust me in any type of way when it comes to this subject .

I understand why he’s worried since we have one baby already from failed birth control but I’m hurt that he wants to completely stop having sex and have a completely sexless marriage..

I just honestly don’t know what to do anymore..