Do you have any sex drive?

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Im 14 weeks pp and I have ZERO sex drive. Is anyone else in this boat or no? I feel like my husband also doesn’t understand it even though this is our second child, then of course I feel bad, but I’m not sure what I can do. I’m touched out, still tired throughout the day, and the last thing I really want to do is have sex..

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It’s different for me…I haven’t been horny since I’ve been pregnant barely want any head

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I’m breastfeeding it kills the desire supposedly…. I want to want it lol I just don’t have the energy or actual desire to pursue my hubby. I give it once a week bc I love him dearly. I get into it once it’s happening but just thinking about it drains me.

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Yep. I want to but just am not there yet mentally… also 14wks PP.

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I just made a poll about this last week. ZERO sex drive at 12 weeks PP. We have done it a few times but I’ve never initiated or been into it at all. The thought is honestly repulsive. I’m completely touched out. And my husband doesn’t help a ton with the baby so I’m even less interested in intimacy when baby is attached to me all day.

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Maybe try watching some racy movies or shows? Doesn't have to be porn, but something that might inspire. 😉

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13 weeks pp and we've been having sex since about 5weeks pp and it's a bit hit and miss. Sometimes I want it sometimes I think I want it and then I don't... My partner is very good with it if I don't feel like it after we've started he'll stop. So some days I have a sex drive. Other days I don't.

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I do want it, but the first time we did it after I had my baby (via c section) hurt so bad, even though we used a ton of lube, that I’m scared to try again

Do you have any sex drive?

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