Any moms out there haven’t had sex yet??

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12 weeks PP over here and we have yet to have sex.  I think my fiancé is terrified of getting me pregnant and I don’t push it either because I’m also a little scared it will hurt like I’ve read so many others say. 
We both agreed we are okay with not using any birth control right now, but I think that’s part of the reason he’s avoiding it.  The other part is that we are both obviously tired at the end of the night, and he leaves to work very early in the morning.

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It's totally normal to not feel ready yet. Like others have said, you've been through a lot and it takes time to recover, both physically and mentally.
That said, if you want to do it, but you're just scared or intimidated, I can offer some advice. Firstly, you can start with non-penetrative sex (maybe even on your own at first), if you're up for it. That will help you rebuild your confidence with physical intimacy, then, when you're ready (may be be minutes later or months later), go for the real deal! When you do, be generous with the lube, take it slow, and just know that if at any time it doesn't feel right or you just aren't into it, you can stop! And it's not the end of the world if it doesn't work! You can always try again another time. I don't think it's unusual for people to go a year or so before feeling physically and mentally ready, so take your time and don't pressure yourself. You can do it in your own time!

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Same here, baby is 14 weeks. My husband told me whenever I’m ready to let him know. While the idea sounds good bc I do miss it, I just mentally am not there yet. And I feel bad 😞

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Only twice and I’m 13 weeks postpartum

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I did.. but never have the desire. My husband wants to all the time and I keep avoiding it. Glad to see I’m not alone.

Any moms out there haven’t had sex yet??

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