violent?

Old food and dirty clothes lie on the floor for more than one month. Food has already become black and rotten. I asked Henrik many times to tell children to do the basic clean up, which i couldn’t remember how many times so far. No one care or act at all. He sees my request as a blame, putting his down, criticizing him. Today I asked again, he got very annoyed and threw the trash to me. Then he twisted my arm in front of Sophia until I surrender in front of Sophia. The he left with Sophia. He said nothing when they back and it seemed nothing happened.