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So my husband and I are ttc but im also like 315, and working on a weight loss program but I feel like at this point we need some sort of help from my gyn, but im worried their only solution will be to lose weight. Weve been trying off and on since we got married in 2019... Ive dealt with being heavy for a while and but ive also had a successful pregnancy, my ds is now 7 so its been a while. I just get worried a dr wont be as supportive with helping with our ttc journey until i lose more weight..has anyone dealt with this? Did your dr give you either clomid or metformin to help.